1. Always self-
You have to stop asking questions like: "How should I do?" You do not need to act like nothing and nobody. You should always be yourself. Of course, you must keep in mind the social gifts, but those things do not change the essence of a person.
2nd A smile can do wonders
If you constantly worry about how to obtain a type of note, then follow this advice. A simple smile can brighten your face, make you look happier, prettier and more accessible. And even if the object of your affection does not love you back, there will be someone in the room that the opinion of your smile.
Three teenagers are just as scared as you
Do not let your bravado and confidence fool you. Children are so confusing and so uncertain as girls when it comes to teenage love. They just act like they do because the company expects to start all over in a relationship. Give them a break doing their part, although it can be stressful.
4. You can ask a child in the first
I know I can get some flak for this advice, but it's something I've said for most of the girls asked for help on the site. Gone are the days where it is forbidden for a girl to ask a boy first. If you like someone to take a chance on them! I know that rejection is scary, but there is nothing more frightening to let the person you want to go?
5. You can not force people to love you
Sometimes no matter how much you love someone. He, or at least can feel the same way about you. No matter how hard you work for the person affected, it may never happen. You must learn to accept that when, and when you try to convey.
6. If you have to do everything yourself, then it is not in
When someone loves you, he will show you a few attempts to get your attention. You will not always work harder to have a conversation with him. You will not be the first text every time. You do not always approach him when you are in the same area. I think you understand my point, right? So unless he is extremely shy, guys like you is not you if you have to do everything yourself.
7. There is no deadline for his first kiss
There are many girls who are in such a hurry to have her first kiss. But honestly, I think the girls put too much pressure on them and their lips. All things happen in due time. Just learn to go with the flow.
8. If in doubt, say no
Nobody can force you to do something, you are not ready for. When it comes to teenage love, this rule is usually applied to physical or sexual activities. But you can also use this basic rule when you are pressured to try drugs, alcohol drinking, to go where you are not familiar with, or to try things that you are in doubt.
9. Sex does not prove anything
If you are not ready for sex, let him know. If you feel uncomfortable about something a man wants you to do, talk about it. Find the courage to utter a single word: NO. Having sex with him does not prove his love. Do not believe the lies he tells you. Please do not let anyone force you to do something that I want to. And if you sexual forces, called a violation to report it. Remember that no means no.
10. Choose your girl friends over a guy
You know how kids are encoded as "Bros before hoes"? I do not particularly like the choice of words, but in the end reminds children to choose their friends or girlfriends in addition to their potential. The logic behind this code is that the love interests come and go, but a friend is always there for you. Girls, we should take this code to the heart. If you can not find true friends, then I will never forget when you get a boyfriend. Hold them are rare species in this world.
11. It is necessary to maintain a balance
I can only say that you should prioritize your friend friends. But, of course, you also need to learn to balance the relationships in your life. You can not write a guy feel neglected, you can?
12th Space can be a good
The adolescent love, or anything for love, for that matter, requires a lot of time and mental energy. You can take a toll on the people involved. Sometimes it is good to give each other space. Believe it or not, but people are like trees. Crowd, so you can stunt their growth. Give them space and they will grow to its full potential.
13th Your life does not end with a break up
Puppy Love is not immune to breakage. And boy, it can be annoying and painful! But please believe me when I say that no matter what hurts, when life does not end up with someone. Of course, it will hurt and complain. But then you get sick of wallowing in self pity, and collect. So you see, feel the pain of separation. Wash the pain you and allow full movement. And even if you can not let go, you'll get used to pain. Life goes on and you will be stronger.
14. There's more in children's lives
If you love life does not work since, and then learn to focus your energy into other forms of life. And 'your education, friendships, hobbies, and family. Do not forget about yourself, habits, and personal growth. There really is more to life than boys. Do not let, or lack thereof in your life, you're down.
Your life as a teenager is quite a modern complex, because that's what health problems social, emotional and mental health of the school, juggling and relationships with family and friends. Add the equation teenage love, and sometimes it feels like you're over your head. But remember that in reality things are not as bad as they appear in your head. Do not let your emotions, hormones, and imagination to get the best for you. Welcome to the lessons, the teenage love is to teach you. You will be a much better person. What other lessons should be taught to think and to meet girls (or guys)?